Behind the Cookstove

A Peek Behind the Cook Stove

By Peggy Hindal

 On a chilly day, if you were looking for my younger sister Mary or me, in our home in rural Iowa, a good place to look was behind the wood-burning cook stove in the kitchen.

In the cozy warmth and shelter of the big black stove we worked on puzzles together, drew pictures, played dominoes, checkers, or Old Maid, hour after contented hour

Here we’d come to dress on cold mornings. Here we’d spread a blanket on the worn linoleum and create a magical kingdom for just the two of us.  Here we’d whisper our secrets and dreams.

I remember vividly when I was seven and then again at ten, when I was sick with Rheumatic Fever. Mother even had to hold the spoon to feed me.  A cot was placed behind the stove.  Mother kept a close eye as she bustled around our big country home, but it was the boys she asked to move my cot closer or further from the stove.  They did all the heaviest work..

Mother needed the help of my two older brothers when our father was away at his job as a conductor on the Rock Island Railway. I can still hear her call out, “George, you help Charles shovel a path to the wood box before school. I’m going to need a heap of wood today, it’s nearly zero.”

Sometimes, after bath time, Mary and I would curl up with our books behind the stove and drift off to sleep. How sweet it was when Father was home and scooped us up and carried us up to bed.

When my daughter asked me about our kitchen when I was growing up, I really couldn’t recall anything, it was too far back. But as I began to describe the wood-burning cook stove, so different than any she’d seen, a flood-gate lifted and memories poured forth as clearly as if I were there again today.  It’s surprising to discover the details that unravel from a single everyday object.

The space behind the stove, a perfect private play room for children when I was growing up, lives on today only in the realm of fading memories.

–As told to Joanne Klassen by my mother, Peggy Hindal 2016


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6 Responses to Behind the Cookstove

  1. Hearing the stories of the last generations is one of my favourite ways to spend time.
    Mom passed away in April of 2007. I am so thankful that she shared her story with me.

  2. Eleanor says:

    I too am thankful for your mother’s shared story. It reminds me of the black cast iron cookstove that my Grandma used. It too needed plenty of wood for all of Grandma’s baking and cooking. I can almost smell the savoury borscht and thin pancakes she made.

  3. Sallie says:

    This reminded me of the times when as a child I was very sick with rheumatic fever, and while recovering was allowed out of bed to sit in the kitchen wrapped in a blanket near our coal burning Aga cooker.It didnt feel as safe bed but at least I wasnt totally isolated as I was in my bedroom which had to keep the curtains and door closed to keep in the heat!.

  4. Sallie says:

    I still have her hand crocheted blanket that she used to wrap me up in. My mother made it for me out of granny squares, made from unpicked cardigans and jumpers and joined them all together with wool of my favourite colour -yellow!

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